Two Down, Two To Go

Last night in Pre Cana (our Catholic classes) we actually got a few things out of it which is surprising, considering the regular interest level on the part of my future spouse. Anyway, there was a married couple who was talking about the ways in which we communicate with our partner and how we should try not to use the word "You" when starting a sentence as it can be accusatory and put our spouse on the defense. They also talked about the way in which we can use actions, words and touch in order to show the other person how we care for them. For each individual it's different but we got a chance to look at the ways we feel affirmed in the relationship as opposed to what might work for the other person. Basic stuff but not always thought about in the context of every day life.

I have to tell you though, the funniest part came at the end (of our two hour class) when we were told to stand up, turn and face each other and hold hands. Then just stare silently into each others eyes while a 3 minute prayer was said out loud to us. That was when I thought it probably got a little ridiculous for us. I was near tears trying to hold back the laughter as John made goofy eyes to me the whole time. I think some things just are a bit too much for even sensitive me!